Recently, FFSoldier57 asked r/AskReddit , "What was a 'Nope' moment you had on a first date with someone?" So we thought we'd share some of the top responses. 1. "Picked me up in a van… with a mattress in the back. Nope. Absolutely NOPE." – IamJoyMarie 2. "I told an anecdote about a male friend, and the guy changed his entire tone. He clarified with me that this was a male friend I was talking about, not a woman, and suddenly got bitter about how women are shallow and never go for guys like him. I was literally on a date with him and had potentially been interested before that. Meanwhile, the guy in the anecdote I was telling is one of my best friends . Wild red flag." – DateInASlapFactory 3. "When they wouldn’t let me choose my own meal." – ratkei 4. "He said, ‘I love dogs ’… then told me he sent his ex’s dog to a shelter when they broke up because ‘it was fair.’ I finished my water, said, ‘I have to go,’ and left." – LaceAndLock 5.…