After having two kids, my house had become disorganized and cluttered. So, I turned to a professional. Amy Lombard for BI In the five years I've lived in my house, there's an entryway bench I've never once sat on. This poor, sweet little bench is always buried underneath piles of coats, orphaned socks whose partners have presumably started new and better lives, and the occasional fossilized Girl Scout cookie . Our coat rack cowers in the corner, assuming the posture of a weeping willow in its final days. Many people with children recognize this tableau as the encroaching entropy of modern family life , where nothing seems to have a place, and the thought of fixing the chaos looms so large that it just never happens! I'd been meaning to declutter for a long time, but never got around to it.  Amy Lombard for BI Decluttering had been on my to-do list for about eight months. At one point, I gleefully declared I would be "rewarding" myself every evening after bedtime by decluttering one small area.…