My mom came into my room to tell me to find clothes for an upcoming event, so she had me pull out the few fancier items I had and show them to her as if to ”prove” I had nice things to wear. Then she helped me organize my clean and dirty clothes that had been piling up. When we were done she tried to give me a high five, but I dismissed her and said ”no, stop it”.

I feel like I should be grateful but I just feel so angry and humiliated. As if I need help to clean my room, I even did clean up a bit just a few days ago and I’ve been prepping to clean the rest… at the end of the day she’s right, since I didn’t clean it myself she thought she needed to help. But it makes me so angry to be treated like I’m incompetent (even tho I kinda am lol), and I get angry at myself for not telling her to stop and let me handle it myself. Or like I couldn’t pick out nice clothes myself and she had to watch me do it and like ”approve” them, fucking degrading, ugh.