If you’ve ever watched someone climax on-screen —whether that’s in ethical porn or a movie sex scene —you probably have at least a general idea of what an orgasm is supposed to look like. There’s a buildup, a moment, a clear finish. Easy enough, right? In reality? It’s a little less…cinematic. If you’re sitting here wondering what a female orgasm feels like for actual, everyday people who aren’t performing for a camera, the answer is: it’s complicated. “There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to female orgasmic experiences ,” says Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, PhD , a sexual communications professor and the author of How Do You Like It?: A Guide for Getting What You Want (in Bed) . Some people have “several rhythmic climaxes during a sex session ,” while others experience “one big one that requires a longer buildup.” And the range doesn’t stop there, she explains. Some people ejaculate a lot, some very little, and some people squirt every time they orgasm . Hence, the confusion.…