Reddit user SweetLexiSweet recently asked r/AskWomen , "For those of you who have decentered men — what's been your biggest revelation?" Here's how women responded: 1. "For a long time, I believed on a subconscious level that men had authority over me – that their decisions and preferences held more weight/were more important than mine. Now I know that partnerships should always be equal." — celestialism 2. "That mentorship from women elders is essential and equally as important as finding a life partner. Without that mentorship, you will fall into so many societal traps built by men to fool you into being less and settling in life." — CuriosityKlldAutism 3. "Once you have money and are a very successful woman, the only thing men have to offer is the way they treat you — and most fail miserably." — Lunafreya93 4. "I'm getting divorced after being married for 12 years and with the man altogether 15 years. I spent my entire adult life with him.…