The aftermath of prostate cancer, more specifically after prostatectomy , usually reveals itself in a series of evolving realisations that life is forever going to be different. Specifically, your sex life is never going to be the same again.  It’s often accompanied by a hint of anger that this is not quite how your doctor explained that things would work out. In fact, when you ask around you find that only a small minority of men are capable of resuming “business as usual”, and the majority feel as you do about the lack of transparency of their doctors. So, forgetting the anger and the past, you are here now, what’s on your mind and how do you adjust ? What’s on your mind is how do I interest women (or my partner) and how do I have a sex life when I am sexually impaired i.e. I cannot get, or I cannot hold an erection? How you adjust is as follows: Think beyond sex - think intimacy .…