4 Years in Edu-IT, Sole Breadwinner Hey everyone, I’m a 28M working in Network and Security. For the last 4 years, I’ve been handling the entire infrastructure for an educational institute. On paper, it sounds like a solid gig, but lately, the weight of it all is starting to feel heavy. I’m the sole breadwinner for my family, so the pressure to succeed isn't just about "ego"—it’s about survival. Because of that, I have this constant, low-simmering anxiety about the future. I’ve been trying to pivot and find a new role for a couple of years now, but despite the effort, I keep landing back at square one. Sometimes I find myself spiraling: Is there something fundamentally missing from my skillset? Is the market just that brutal? Or is it honestly just down to luck and destiny at this point? It feels like I’m running a marathon on a treadmill—lots of effort, zero distance covered.…