This might be a controversial statement—and a shocking one coming from me, considering I’ve never actually done this—but sometimes, it’s actually a good idea to get back with your ex. Yes, I said it. (And no , this is not your excuse to forgive your toxic, cheating ex who always downplayed your feelings.) Videos by VICE “Getting back with an ex is not inherently a red flag or doomed to fail,” says Dr. Sabrina Romanoff, relationship expert at Hily Dating App and Harvard-trained clinical psychologist. “It only becomes a problem when nothing has actually changed, and you’re just returning to the same burning building because it feels familiar, waiting for the inevitable fire to consume you again.” Have you been in contact with your ex and wondering whether you should give it another go? You’re definitely not alone, but this situation requires a delicate approach. Here are 3 signs you should get back with your ex. 1.…