Good afternoon everyone, my girlfriend and I (M) are 27. She has EDS, POTS, and Autism. We lightly flirted here and there, but I do want to actually have sex with her eventually (we've only made out).

Part of the problem is that although I have some experience, she has none other than kissing someone before. Her comfort is very important to me, so I'm asking for help on this.

Any other advice is appreciated too, of course. Thank you for your time.

I was recommended to post in r/AutismInWomen but I'm male.