Dear Prudence Maybe I should send it to her. Advice by Enter your email to receive alerts for this author. Sign in or create an account to better manage your email preferences. Unsubscribe from email alerts Are you sure you want to unsubscribe from email alerts for Nadira Goffe ? April 29, 2026 6:00 AM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Ardani Saputro/Getty Images Plus and Daria Trofimova/Unsplash. Dear Prudence is Slate’s advice column. For this edition, Nadira Goffe, a Slate culture writer,   will be filling in as Prudie.  Submit questions here.   (It’s anonymous!) Dear Prudence, Last night, my best friend butt-dialed me while engaged in a tearful conversation with her erstwhile love interest, a guy she hooked up with for a while who made no secret of pursuing other women at the same time. When I last spoke to her a week ago, she said they were just good friends now. But during the call, which left a two-minute voicemail on my phone, she insisted she loved him and wanted to support him.…