We asked people from the BuzzFeed Community who have been divorced to tell us the signs on their wedding day that their marriage wouldn't last. Here are the surprising — and heartbreaking — results: 1. "I knew I was doing the wrong thing when I was offered money to not marry him, and I'd considered taking it. I remember walking to the church for the ceremony and asking myself what I was doing. I was a woman who didn't want to hurt feelings, so I went through with it." "A year and a half later, we divorced, and I learned to tell people how I really feel." — lionpride0318 2. "Our wedding pastor referred to me by another woman’s name during our vow ceremony. Turns out, he had a secret family complete with another child for the entire 17 years of marriage. I left on a Friday night with nothing more than the clothes on my back, and the other woman was sleeping in my bed on my side by Monday. I never looked back." "CHEERS, mate… To free will!" —49, California 3.…