3. "Even before we were married, in our early 20s, things had been rocky between my (ex) wife and me. Essentially, she wasn't into the marriage, and I had forgiven a few transgressions on her part. I thought we had worked things out and were on track. But, at a Christmas party for her work, we were at a table with a few other couples who had been married for some time. We were the young 'newlyweds.' Someone asked if we were planning to start a family, and I said, 'Yeah, hopefully soon.' She said (in front of everyone), 'A family? We don't even know if we're going to stay together!' It grew really quiet, and the other couples could see I was caught off guard. THAT is when I knew. There was no going back, and getting divorced was the BEST thing to happen to me." —Anonymous 5. "I called him around 6 p.m., and he answered the phone by saying 'What do you want?' I still don’t know why he is so angry.…