Hoping to free yourself from the anxiety vortex that is helping your child apply to college? Your way out of this high-pressure maze may be easier than you think: Hire a college admissions counselor to help you navigate the application process step-by-step (ahem, meltdown-by-meltdown).  Part personal coach and part insider strategist with a hefty dose of morale booster, admissions counselors are here when going it alone — or even with the help of a school college guidance counselor — isn’t cutting it.  Christopher Rim, founder and CEO of Command Education , knows all too well the tailspin the highly selective college admissions process propels families into, making  “everyone reactive rather than proactive.”  Still, he firmly believes that this process doesn’t have to be crisis-driven. “In fact, it should be exciting and inspiring.…