Why Listening to Yourself Makes Others Uncomfortable Press enter or click to view image in full size Photo by Johannes Plenio on Unsplash Have you ever said “no” and suddenly you became the bad guy? That’s usually when the label appears: selfish. Many people mistake listening to themselves for a form of selfishness. As if prioritizing your own needs means you don’t care. Or worse, that you’re hurting others. Or you get written off as rigid, difficult, or inconsiderate. This misunderstanding often runs deep because most of us were raised with the belief that being “good” means erasing yourself for others. The Social Standard That Glorifies Over-Sacrifice Many people place self-sacrifice at the highest peak of morality. Especially in the role of a mother. As if a mother is obligated to give up everything for her children and partner. Instinctively, it does happen automatically; it runs on its own. But when taken too far, without limits, a mother can lose herself entirely.…