When you can’t ignore someone’s action

And have anger as well as frustration

The reason may lie within you

And not on the other person

When we fear something

And it requires some effort to do the work

We rely on the other person who can do it effortlessly

And form a sense of attachment

This attachment is dangerous

The person has the upper hand

He may treat you as a puppet

As you are dependent upon him

You derive a sense of motivation

To do the work you fear

The basis of the relationship is not healthy

And you need to get rid of this attachment

Work on your fear

Remove it from your psyche

You, too, will then work effortlessly

And the root cause of attachment will dissolve

You will no longer need the person

His actions will not matter to you

The anger and frustration will melt away

And you will be your own master