My husband and I wish we had met sooner. A simple activity helps us connect with our younger selves. The author (right) and her husband (left) met in their mid-30s. Courtesy of Ashley Archambault My husband and I got married in our mid-30s. We met at work, as independent adults . It felt like we had finally found each other. We've been together for six years now, and there have been many times when we wished that we had met sooner. What makes this feeling worse is that we're the same age and grew up in the same state. We have so many commonalities growing up that it's amazing we didn't cross paths sooner. I think most of all, I wish I could have met him in college and had the opportunity to start a life together afterward. We stumbled on a simple way to feel closer On a whim one night, we put an old episode of Anthony Bourdain on, and something funny happened: we could not stop talking.…