Making it clear she’s in no rush to get back onto the dating scene, Valerie Bertinelli explained this week that she now actively looks for narcissism “red flags” when meeting men. In her “Getting Naked” podcast on Wednesday titled “Know Your Narcissist,” Bertinelli revealed that she didn’t even realize she was dealing with narcissism in her own romantic relationships until several years ago after first recognizing it in the fraught political climate. “I don’t want to throw anybody that’s been in my life under a bus, I just want to talk about experiences that have been challenging and made me  question my self-worth ,” the “One Day at a Time” star told her guest Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a psychologist and author. “When we know who we are, Valerie, when someone is coming at us like the way that narcissistic people do, we can be a lot more steadfast,” the doctor advised.…