ADHD/RSD shutdown or has he emotionally checked out? Struggling with push–pull dynamic I’m really struggling to understand what’s happening in my relationship and would appreciate insight from people familiar with ADHD/RSD. I’m a mum of young kids, working full time. My husband (Dx ADHD, likely RSD/emotional dysregulation) and I are currently separated. There’s a strong push–pull dynamic: \- He says I’ve hurt him for years, lack empathy, and that everything is my fault \- He says he needs distance and is “protecting himself” from me \- But then continues messaging, asking questions, and pulling me back into conversation \- He shuts down when I try to respond, saying he doesn’t want discussion He’s now saying he “can’t last another day in this” and that it’s been 10 years of unmet needs. He also goes back and forth on the idea of counselling, sometimes open, sometimes saying it’s pointless. From my side, I’ve been trying to stay calm, take accountability where I can, and communicate better.…