Good Job Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Liudmila Chernetska/Getty Images Plus.  Good Job is Slate’s advice column on work. Have a workplace problem big or small? Send it to Laura Helmuth and Doree Shafrir here . (It’s anonymous!) Dear Good Job, A few months ago I was unexpectedly fired from the only job I’ve had as an adult. They told me my conduct didn’t align with their company values but wouldn’t elaborate further. After doing some digging, I found out that my ex, who didn’t take our breakup well, had contacted my employer and told them the details about my life. In particular, they shared detailes of our very adventurous sex life (swinging, sex clubs, and more), knowing that the company owners are very religious and conservative. I can’t officially prove anything but multiple ex coworkers had heard the same thing as to why I was fired.…