T he debate over “gentle parenting ” has clearly struck a nerve – and Independent readers are split on whether it nurtures well-rounded children or leaves them without the boundaries they need. Following a report from Charlotte Cripps, who spoke to authors and professors arguing the problem lies not in schools but in a lack of rules at home , many readers agreed that insufficient discipline is fuelling poor behaviour, with children given “too much freedom” too early and struggling to cope with authority. Others strongly disagreed, sharing success stories of calm, respectful parenting producing confident, high-achieving children. A common thread, however, was that the issue goes beyond labels. Many readers stressed that consistency and clear boundaries matter most – whether delivered gently or firmly – and that problems arise when parents fail to enforce them. Here’s what you had to say: Gentle parenting is not pleasant Seen first-hand the consequences of gentle parenting, and it’s not pleasant.…