The Friars aren’t criers.  It’s been quite some time since St. Anthony’s girls lacrosse didn’t walk off the field victorious — 51 games over nearly four years, to be exact — but that stunningly changed in April against an equal behemoth, which the young ladies have taken in stride. The No. 1 nationally ranked private school narrowly faltered 10-9 in overtime to America’s No. 1 public school, Darien, Conn., in a shell-shocking and unfamiliar moment to the Long Island powerhouse that sports 33 college commits.  St. Anthony’s co-captain Emma Speed looks to make a mass during their recent varsity practice. Dennis A. Clark for New York Post “We definitely learn a lot more from a loss than a win,” Vanderbilt-bound senior captain Sophia Novelli told The Post. “We took that into every practice, and are building off of that and building off each other,” added the four-year varsity defender, who just suffered her and the team’s first lost since she was in ninth grade. Although St.…