I think it’s safe to assume we’ve all heard of golden retriever boyfriends by now. And perhaps you’re also familiar with the GRBF’s dark, moody foil, the black cat boyfriend ? Well, meet his female counterpart: the black cat girlfriend. As you might expect, the black cat girlfriend is essentially what she sounds like: “A partner who mirrors the classic personality traits we often associate with black cats, mysterious, independent, and selectively affectionate,” explains relationship coach Amie Leadingham . “A black cat girlfriend is highly selective about where they invest their social energy, values their alone time, tends to be more introverted, and has a slightly aloof yet intimidating quality about them that draws people in.” But don’t let the seemingly standoffish vibes fool you. There’s much more to the black cat girlfriend archetype than her withdrawn, slightly witchy exterior lets on (and that’s part of her magic).…