She’s the second-in-command of the nation’s largest police department, but First Deputy Commissioner Tania Kinsella is also a mom-of-two – and she’s hoping to inspire other women that “there is room in this world to do both.” Kinsella, 45, who was born in the South Bronx, joined the NYPD in 2003 and worked her way up to the high-ranking role in 2023. “It was the best decision of my life, besides having my children,” she said of joining New York’s Finest. First Deputy Commissioner Tania Kinsella is the second-in-command at the NYPD — and a proud mother of two. James Keivom for NY Post Kinsella with her children Madison and Evan. Obtained by NY Post She had her kids – Madison, 14, and Evan, 10 — when she was a sergeant. Kinsella, who was married to a fellow NYPD sergeant, said her kids were born with blue blood – even asking smart questions when she worked as a precinct commander and practiced her CompStat speech in front of them. “I would choose each child to be one of the chiefs,” she said.…