A while back, we shared secrets that people would rather take to the grave than ever tell their spouse. Then, a bunch of readers decided to share their own secrets. Here are some of those responses: Some submissions are also from this thread .  1. "He thinks I was only married once before him. Truth is, he is my fourth husband." —Anonymous, 50, female, Scottsdale, AZ 2. "Most of my wife’s friends have made very strong passes at me in the past. One of them even still actively tries to catch me alone at home all the time. I’ve been honest with them and told them they aren’t very good friends. I’m very faithful and would never cheat on my wife. I just kinda use it as a confidence booster. I tried telling her, and she just laughs like I’m joking." —Anonymous, 42, male, Washington 3. "My wife slept with another man while we were ‘on break’ early in our relationship. We had sex shortly before her little endeavor with this man. She told me she was pregnant, and that’s what brought us back together.…