Does anyone else frequently find that a lot of people dislike you even though you feel positive towards them? I also have been told that my friends thought I hated them before we started talking more. I never hate ANYONE!!! Hating people takes so much energy I really dgaf and can’t hold a grudge for more than a minute. I’m always so surprised when people don’t hold that same standard for me! “Are you mad at me” why on EARTH would I be mad at you!!!! 😭 They always say like “I thought I said something that annoyed you” okay maybe you did but why would I dislike you for that!! Do allistic people do that?? If I say something annoying you dislike me for it? Getting annoyed is part of friendship for me. If we agree on everything what’s even the point? Annoy me and I’ll annoy you that’s like the whole deal of being friends submitted by /u/bettergocatchitthen [link] [comments]