I need to say this somewhere because I can't say it to anyone who knows us. We've been in Barcelona for 4 years, we came for my job and we both fell in love with it, the weather, the pace, the life we built here, and for a long time it felt like something we'd chosen together. Then his dad had a minor health scare last spring and something shifted in my husband that hasn't shifted back. He just want to move back home and be close to his parents while there's still time. He brings it up every month now, always gently, always framed as a question similar to "do you think we could start looking into it seriously?" and I say things like let's get through Q3 or I just need a bit more time to think through the logistics and he nods and waits because he trusts me. The truth I haven't told anyone about is that I'm terrified. When I took this job I negotiated a Spain-based contract and my entire compensation structure, tax setup, everything, was built around living here.…