On the surface, everything looks just right. A carefully written holiday letter. A polished home. A family that knows how to smile at all the right moments. But beneath it all, every family has its secrets.  Some hide in plain sight: forced smiles, quiet dinners and conversations that never quite happen. But a mother recovering from a traumatic accident and an adopted daughter struggling to be understood leave a father who’s too consumed with work to notice the distance growing in his own home.  When conversations stall and tension lingers, what begins as small fractures starts to splinter into something much harder to hide.  But for the Healy family, what’s left unsaid doesn’t get completely buried; it gets sung in “Alanis Morissette’s Jagged Little Pill: The Musical,” taking over the Colorado Springs Fine Arts Center at Colorado College from April 30 through May 24.…