Why Gaurav Gera chose singlehood: Understanding avoidant attachment and the fear of intimacy. (Source: Instagram/@kapiltejwaniofficial) Bollywood actor Gaurav Gera has been single for a while now. “It’s not my scene,” he shared during a recent conversation with Humans of Bombay . “There was a time, I was very deeply in..And after that, I never want to go back into it. I don’t want to make anyone so special that they have the power to hurt me,” the Dhurandhar star further added. Gera’s reluctance to date and open himself up to love and relationships eventually shaped his attachment style, with Dr Samant Darshi, consultant psychiatrist, Psymate Healthcare & Yatharth Super-Speciality Hospitals, explaining it as an avoidant attachment. Simply put, it is a type of attachment characterised by a fear of intimacy and a tendency to avoid closeness in relationships.…