Care and Feeding Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Getty Images Plus. This is a newsletter bonus question. Care and Feeding is Slate’s parenting advice column.  Have a question for Care and Feeding?  Submit it here . Dear Care and Feeding, My husband and I have 7-year-old twin girls, “Chrissy” and “Sarah.” Months ago, we signed both of them up for soccer. Now that the spring season is in full swing, it has become clear that Chrissy loves it while Sarah hates it. I was hesitant to sign Sarah up along with her sister, as Sarah is a major introvert, but my husband insisted. Sarah has increasingly been asking us to let her to quit; she’s very much an artsy kid and would love to take painting classes. My husband seems oblivious to the fact that our daughter is miserable. He says it’s easier to have both kids involved in the same activity and that Sarah needs to give soccer more time before “giving up.” Is this an instance where I don’t need his agreement to remove Sarah…