Linda, 45 double quotation mark Since everything on the list is something we both like, when he sends me a suggestion it turns me on The first time Elias and I had sex was the best sex I’d had in my life. We met about 13 years ago after I’d separated from my first husband, with whom I’d had a very mismatched sex drive. My ex said it was normal that you become like roommates after a few years. But sex was really important to me. I thought: I’m 30, I’m not ready to give it up. Sex is an essential part of my relationship with Elias. But about seven years ago, I began having health issues and ended up having a hysterectomy which kicked me into early menopause. I wasn’t even 40. My sex drive just fell off a cliff. Elias would want to initiate sex and I kept rejecting him, which began to make him feel insecure. I wanted to want sex, but my body wasn’t responding in the way it used to.…