Grandma is fired up. Whether or not you live near them, having a close relationship with grandchildren is one of life’s greatest joys. However, a debate as old as time is who is responsible for keeping this relationship intact. Some believe it’s on the parents, others feel that at a certain age, grandchildren should, while others think it’s the oldest generation who should be doing the work. Well, one grandmother didn’t hold back in a recent TikTok video about the matter, causing quite the stir online. Who reaches out to whom is a topic both grandparents and parents feel strongly about. NDABCREATIVITY – stock.adobe.com “I think it’s the grandparents’ responsibility to always reach out, to be the one saying, ‘Can we help out with this?’ Can we come and visit? Can we take them there? Is there anything you’d like me to do? Do you need some support this week? Do you need some support next week?'” the UK-based devoted granny, named Helen, said to the camera in her video that has racked up over 2 million views.…