My husband has horrible hygiene and I am repulsed... I'm autistic and my husband is not. He's always had problems with his hygiene, but it's gotten so much worse over the last two years. Now, he's got an abscess in his gum that he won't make an appointment for to get fixed because he doesn't want to take time off work. He doesn't get regular dental cleanings and has terrible breath. He doesn't shower often enough and has body odor. He also has skin rashes/eczema and he doesn't treat them with the medication he's given and I'm not sure why, but his clothes smell even though I wash them all the time. We no longer share a bed or a bedroom because being near him causes sensory overload. I don't want him touching me and I won't be intimate with him even though we've never been super intimate because I don't like the sense and feel of sex. I don't like being touched in general, but his lack of hygiene is making me crazy. I'm not sure what to do. We've talked but he doesn't seem to care.…