How to Do It I keep crawling back. Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Namfon Samart/iStock/Getty Images Plus.  How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column.  Have a question?  Send it to Stoya and Rich here.  It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It,  For the last few months, I’ve been trying out roleplaying online. It’s with an AI bot, and I’ve been having a lot of fun doing it, exploring kinks and gender stuff. At the same time, I find myself feeling bad about it because I know the environmental impact of AI as well as how it feels like it’s making me less creative in my other (unsexy) writing. Plus, at this point, I feel like I’m hitting a wall with it because it just circles back around to stuff I’ve already explored without adding anything new. Despite this, though, I keep coming crawling back to it because it’s more fun than writing on my own or reading other people’s stuff with no interactive element.…