A devastated New Jersey widow blasted a local cemetery after her beloved husband was allegedly buried in the wrong plot, according to a new lawsuit. Debra Poller accused Stanhope Union Cemetery in Netcong of burying her 69-year-old husband, Alan, in a neighboring plot instead of the family gravesite she had purchased after he died on Nov. 30, according to a lawsuit filed last week and obtained by NJ.com . Stanhope Union Cemetery in Netcong, New Jersey. morriscountynj.gov The grieving Lake Hopatcong woman said she only spotted the cemetery’s alarming blunder on Dec. 3. Poller slammed the burial site for failing to act with “reasonable care and skill” when it entombed her husband, a Hungarian immigrant who arrived in the US at 17 in 1973, claiming it added to her already intense emotional distress, according to the suit and his obituary.…