In dating, we often search for our “happily ever after”—but is that a realistic or even healthy goal?  Marriage and long-term commitments aren’t always sunshine and rainbows, and we must anticipate the many challenges we’ll inevitably face. Even the healthiest relationships have rough patches. Videos by VICE Not to mention, the idea of a “happily ever after” ending can imply dissatisfaction or unfulfillment in the present moment. Until we reach said goal, which in this case is usually a long-term relationship/marriage, we must be miserable and yearning for more. Here are the downsides of “happily ever after” thinking—and how this mindset might tarnish a healthy, authentic connection. 1. It Causes You to Pathologize Normal Relationships Dr.…